Grief comes and goes. There are days when you think you are over something and then, BAM!, a trigger shows you that you are not. No matter what loss you have experienced, loss is loss! Whether it's divorce, death, or the end of a relationship. I am realizing that it's OK to feel loss from time to time, but it's not OK to dwell on it so much that it hinders your future. I may not be completely over some of my losses, but I'm willing to address them and not overlook them. Do what you must to deal with your loss. Go to a grief support group, seek individual counseling, or whatever causes you to address and face your loss. The length of the grief process is not important. The fact that you grieve your losses is. Finally, PRAY that God does the work in you that only He can do .